Relationship With Someone With Schizophrenia, Does Not Believe In Meds And Has Been Off Them For 30+ Years

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I met him 13 years ago and in different city when I traveled to go to the beach now I’m living in this city since last year and we have reconnected. The mixed signals are very hard for me because I am a person who loves deeply and I’m very loyal. I never shame him. I always offer encouragement. I give him rides and help him with whatever I can. When he goes into isolation which he does quite often now it’s really hard, but I try to be understanding. I love him dearly, but this is so hard.

February 17
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How can you support someone with schizophrenia who doesn't believe in medication and frequently isolates?

It sounds like you're doing many things right already - offering encouragement without shame, providing practical help, and trying to understand his experience. That kind of consistent, nonjudgmental support really Show Full Answer

How can you support someone with schizophrenia who doesn't believe in medication and frequently isolates?

It sounds like you're doing many things right already - offering encouragement without shame, providing practical help, and trying to understand his experience. That kind of consistent, nonjudgmental support really matters.

The isolation and mixed signals you're experiencing are common challenges. Many people with schizophrenia withdraw socially, and this can be especially difficult for those who care about them. When he isolates, try to stay connected without being intrusive - maybe a simple text letting him know you're thinking of him.

Regarding medication, it's important to respect his choices while still offering support. Instead of pushing treatment, you might ask how he'd like to be supported. Let him know you're there for him without trying to control his decisions.

Here are some ways to help while protecting yourself:

* Focus on listening without judgment when he does want to talk
* Be consistent and reliable - even small routines like regular check-ins can provide stability
* Set boundaries to protect your own well-being
* Celebrate small positive moments together
* Consider finding support for yourself, like a caregiver support group

Your mental health matters too. Supporting someone with schizophrenia can be emotionally complex, and you deserve support as well. Taking care of yourself isn't selfish - it helps you be there for him in sustainable ways.

February 17
A MySchizophreniaTeam Subscriber

Thank you I definitely need to find a support group because I find myself as a loving him and giving and etc.. I am losing myself.

February 17
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