How Can I Get My 20 Year Old Grandson To Bathe And Brush His Teeth. He Has Neglected Them To The Point That Nearly All His Teeth Need Work.

A MySchizophreniaTeam Visitor asked a question 💭

He is schizophrenic and takes a monthly injection. He refuses to take the pills they give him for anxiety, so he can't sleep at night.

November 20
MySchizophreniaTeam2

How can I help my grandson with schizophrenia improve his self-care habits like bathing and dental hygiene?

It's understandable to feel concerned about your grandson's self-care. Personal hygiene struggles are common with schizophrenia, especially when symptoms like low motivation or trouble focusing make daily tasks feel Show Full Answer

How can I help my grandson with schizophrenia improve his self-care habits like bathing and dental hygiene?

It's understandable to feel concerned about your grandson's self-care. Personal hygiene struggles are common with schizophrenia, especially when symptoms like low motivation or trouble focusing make daily tasks feel overwhelming.

Here are some supportive approaches to try:

Ask what would help most. Rather than pushing or controlling, try asking your grandson what support he'd find useful. This respects his independence while showing you care.

Offer help with specific tasks. You could:
* Drive him to dental appointments
* Set up medication or hygiene reminders on his phone
* Help him create a simple daily routine checklist
* Break tasks into smaller steps (like "rinse mouth" before "full brushing")

Focus on one thing at a time. Trying to change everything at once can feel overwhelming. Start with the most pressing concern—perhaps dental care given the extent of tooth damage.

Use a calm, supportive approach. When bringing up hygiene concerns, speak gently without judgment. Avoid nagging, which can create resistance and damage your relationship.

Consider his sleep struggles. His refusal to take anxiety medication and resulting sleep problems may be making self-care even harder. Exploring why he refuses the pills—side effects, not believing he needs them, or past negative experiences—might help address the root issue. Talk to his treatment team. His healthcare providers might have strategies specific to his situation or could adjust his treatment plan to address the anxiety and sleep issues differently.

Set boundaries for yourself. Caring for someone with schizophrenia is emotionally demanding. Around 60 percent of family caregivers experience burnout. Make sure you're also taking care of your own well-being—you can't pour from an empty cup.

Remember, change often happens slowly. Your patience, consistency, and willingness to support without controlling can build trust over time, making him more open to accepting help.

November 20
All updates must be accompanied by text or a picture.

Related content

View All

How Can I Help My Fiance Understand His Paranoid Schizophrenia And How Can I Get Him To Realize That He Has This Problem And Needs Meds

A MySchizophreniaTeam Visitor asked a question 💭

My Husband Was In Psychosis 59 Days He Was Not Really Compliant W Me His Dr Wanted Him Inpt Long Story Short He Jumped Out 8 X His Voice Tom

A MySchizophreniaTeam Subscriber asked a question 💭

My Family Have All Turned There Back On My Son. Because He Has Gotten Violent And Threatening. I Can't Do This Tough Love Thing. But He Scar

A MySchizophreniaTeam Visitor asked a question 💭