My roommate carries on conversations/arguments with people that are not there. Has gotten worse over time. What can I do?

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September 1
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What can you do when your roommate with schizophrenia is having conversations or arguments with people who aren't there, and it's getting worse?

This sounds really stressful, and it's clear you care about your roommate. What you're describing — talking or arguing with unseen people — can be a sign that their schizophrenia Show Full Answer

What can you do when your roommate with schizophrenia is having conversations or arguments with people who aren't there, and it's getting worse?

This sounds really stressful, and it's clear you care about your roommate. What you're describing — talking or arguing with unseen people — can be a sign that their schizophrenia symptoms aren't well controlled. The brain can make these voices feel completely real to them, so they respond as if they are.

Since it's getting worse over time, that's an important signal worth taking seriously. Here are some steps that may help:

- Stay calm around them — your energy matters. Speak softly and slowly, and avoid sudden movements or raised voices
- Don't argue or dismiss what they're experiencing — it feels very real to them
- Validate without agreeing — you don't have to confirm the voices are real, but you can acknowledge they seem distressed
- Encourage them to see their doctor or psychiatrist — worsening symptoms may mean their treatment plan needs adjusting, or they may have stopped taking medication
- Have a safety plan — know where exits are and keep a phone nearby, just in case

If at any point you feel unsafe or they seem to be a danger to themselves, don't hesitate to call 911. Let first responders know your roommate has schizophrenia so they can respond appropriately.

September 1
A MySchizophreniaTeam Visitor

Thank you. She does not take any medication and denies having schizophrenia. I'm not a medical doctor,but my friend of over 15 years has the disorder as well and the symptoms my roommate is displaying are almost identical to the ones my friend would have before she'd be hospitalized for treatment. Would it be out of line if I reached out to my roommates aunt and expressed.y concern?

September 1
A MySchizophreniaTeam Visitor

Ive seen my friend go from being catatonic to psychotic and now thanks to medication is leading a healthy, happy, productive life. It's a manageable disorder from what Ive learned and I don't know why anyone would choose to live a life hearing and seeing people that aren't there. Very sad to watch her deteroriate

September 1
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